Instant Date

Yesterday I was out with two of my wings. It was busy in town and I let a few good sets pass me by. I didn’t feel like I had a good vibe after a busy day at work. I drank a black coffee later than I usually do and felt a wave of anxiety go through me as I walked down Henry St. It was a stop start kind of session and I wasn’t feeling great. I opened an interesting looking black girl near the GPO but got nowhere. I had a couple of near misses before we decided to head across the bridge to Grafton St. As we got to the south side the Christmas lights were flashing as darkness covered the city. A girl all in black rushed past. I looked at my wing and he gave me the nod. I doubled back up the steps of the Ha’penny Bridge and chased the lady in black down. My initial thought was that she was a solid 8. When I opened her about being a black bear hiding in the darkness she hooked immediately and it was easy sailing from there. I found out that she was from Brazil, in Ireland two years and very receptive to my ‘Irish charm’. She literally did all the work for me.

Now today I was thinking if I learnt anything from the set. I’ve mentioned before that the majority of South American girls are very receptive and even after a weak set you normally come out with a number. I encountered no shit tests and after I closed for the number she mentioned how she had nothing on that evening and would love a drink. I suggested a bar and she agreed with a smile. The idate went really well, chatted about shit for a while, then escalated which she was receptive to. Walked her up Henry St and kissed her. I think I could have pushed for a bounce back to hers as she was getting very hot and moaning when I kissed her. In hindsight I regret not even suggesting it.

Has this experience helped me along in my journey? I’m not sure. I’m glad I got her out for an idate but she seems like a ‘Yes’ girl and would go along with anything I suggest. I’m relatively new to the whole daygame world. Do I need to skip the ‘easy’ sets and just go for more challenging sets in order to improve? Or do I go for everything till the whole process is embedded and it becomes second nature? Who knows!

Infield Report 22/7/18

Today it was super hot. I was walking around central London feeling sluggish and lethargic. I had been out drinking on Friday and hooked up with a girl in an Aussie bar near Fulham. We were walking back to hers but then at her door decided she wasn’t going to let me in. Slightly pissed, I decided I’d treat myself to a black taxi back to Camden. It didn’t help my hangover the next morning when I realised how much it cost me. Saturday I had an Irish girl (old Tinder lead) around. My preference is black/mixed race girls but decided to invite her over as she seemed very keen. We then had an awkward evening and she left once we had finished eating, not sure what happened there. 
Y was full of energy and on, I was trying my best to feed of his vibe. The first girl I approached was an Asian girl on her phone, it was a half arsed attempt and I left. Next was a cute girl standing at an entrance to a shop near Covent Garden. Again my mind was thinking about too many different things which made the open erratic and weak. Reflecting back on the approach, I noticed that my stance wasn’t assertive enough but I maintained good eye contact and managed to emphasis my Irish accent. Y was pushing me as all good wings should and my next approach was probably the best of the day. A super hot blonde was strutting her stuff down Regents Street with about 10 bags on each arm. Y was pushing me to do it and I just went for it, didn’t over think. Teased her about all her bags she had in her hand. She was loving it, and was really enjoying it when all of a sudden I blanked and couldn’t think of anything at all to say. So I was out of there in a flash. Although no numbers I was happy with the final approach although I needed to up my game.  Doing three approaches after 3 hours is not enough, this is something I need to work on