Lay Report #2

One frosty evening about two weeks ago I received a message on my phone. The text was from a girl I stopped before Christmas who I went on a few dates with. The text said that she couldn’t give me what I wanted as she was a virgin and too nervous to try anything. She was in her mid 20s and from Brazil. Now, in the past I would have just left it and moved on, but I kept things very chilled and I could see over a few more text messages her curiosity coming through. She began asking me what other things we could explore other than sex. Over the next two weeks I began setting the scene. She was getting very horny with all the sex chats that we were having and on Wednesday she text to say that she wanted to try it out. Brilliant! Now I’ve never slept with a virgin before so was looking forward to the experience.

Friday night and the minute I closed the door it was on! Full of adrenaline she start kissing eagerly with her hands going everywhere. Over the next hour we progressed from very slowly rubbing the outside of her pussy to me pounding her hard as she lay on top of me. The sex was good and she really enjoyed putting her legs on my shoulders as I went deeper. We went again after a few glasses of wine which was even better. I had a much better experience compared to the last Brazilian, I was worried that she might act strange after sex but she was very cool. She had a really petite and feminine frame which really turned me on.

Looking back I’m glad I stuck with it, I controlled the frame after that text and guided her along subtly till she was ready to fuck!

Daygame Flakes

January is a tough month for daygame in Dublin. With the bad weather and everyone poor after the Christmas holidays the streets can be pretty quite. That didn’t stop my wings and I giving it a go and seeing what the streets had to offer. Having reviewed my success over the month it appears I did very poorly. I only managed to approach 19 girls and the quality of the sets were very poor. I went back into nice guy mode which didn’t help spike up conversations. From 5 numbers I had 4 flakes and one date. I stopped an American in the middle of the month and managed to get her out on a date. My wing spotted a tattooed girl with a big ass walk past us and sent me into the set. She was just my type. She was porn star hot, with juicy big lips and fake eye lashes. She was very receptive when I took her number, I told her that I would contact her later that night. She didn’t put the international code in so my first text never sent. I tried calling her but no joy. Eventually my text sent but at this time it was too late. She did’t text again till the Monday, I organised a date for Tuesday (her last night) and she agreed. I felt things were on!

Date went really well and there was good sexual tension. To cut to the chase, I was standing outside her hotel and we kissed but she didn’t invite me up. I need to get more comfortable with leading in these situations. I could have done a better job and found some way to get up to her room. Those logical and nice guy traits are strong in me. ‘If she didn’t invite me up she mustn’t want sex’ I reasoned, so I didn’t push. She invited me over to America over the next few months and I was totally on board…that is until she turned crazy because I missed her call one night. I could not be arsed texting her for the next few months just for one lay when I could be focusing my energies elsewhere. Looking back it looks like I dodged a bullet.

So other than this date in January I’ve been dealing with the flake issue. I go over the sets in my head and question why they didn’t respond. A wing suggests that I’m not qualifying them enough and that the sets need to be more ‘spicy’. This is true. As rapport is developed I fall into the trap of ‘just having a chat with them’. Hopefully February offers more success. I’m heading to Denmark in the middle of the month to practice my limited skills on some Danes.

Instant Date

Yesterday I was out with two of my wings. It was busy in town and I let a few good sets pass me by. I didn’t feel like I had a good vibe after a busy day at work. I drank a black coffee later than I usually do and felt a wave of anxiety go through me as I walked down Henry St. It was a stop start kind of session and I wasn’t feeling great. I opened an interesting looking black girl near the GPO but got nowhere. I had a couple of near misses before we decided to head across the bridge to Grafton St. As we got to the south side the Christmas lights were flashing as darkness covered the city. A girl all in black rushed past. I looked at my wing and he gave me the nod. I doubled back up the steps of the Ha’penny Bridge and chased the lady in black down. My initial thought was that she was a solid 8. When I opened her about being a black bear hiding in the darkness she hooked immediately and it was easy sailing from there. I found out that she was from Brazil, in Ireland two years and very receptive to my ‘Irish charm’. She literally did all the work for me.

Now today I was thinking if I learnt anything from the set. I’ve mentioned before that the majority of South American girls are very receptive and even after a weak set you normally come out with a number. I encountered no shit tests and after I closed for the number she mentioned how she had nothing on that evening and would love a drink. I suggested a bar and she agreed with a smile. The idate went really well, chatted about shit for a while, then escalated which she was receptive to. Walked her up Henry St and kissed her. I think I could have pushed for a bounce back to hers as she was getting very hot and moaning when I kissed her. In hindsight I regret not even suggesting it.

Has this experience helped me along in my journey? I’m not sure. I’m glad I got her out for an idate but she seems like a ‘Yes’ girl and would go along with anything I suggest. I’m relatively new to the whole daygame world. Do I need to skip the ‘easy’ sets and just go for more challenging sets in order to improve? Or do I go for everything till the whole process is embedded and it becomes second nature? Who knows!

Challenging Conditions

Dublin at the moment is wet, and it’s not from my sexual exploits. As the days have gotten darker and the weather has…well remained the same, conditions in Dublin have become harder. There have been a couple of days and after the end of the session I had only approached 2 or 3 girls. It’s harder to spot the 6 and 7s now that they’re all wrapped up or hiding under umbrellas. My wings and I are soldiering on with various degrees of success. I’ve found myself relying on the South American girls recently. I know they are very receptive and even if it’s not my strongest set I usually end up with a number. Now this is good for my ego but deep down I know I’m not making the strides I would like because I’m not taking risks with the high 8s and 9s. I have about 4 Brazilian girls I’m texting at the minute and it all seems so familiar. I’ve had a number of flakes recently too. I noticed that I was coming across way too friendly in my sets. I need to improve my sexual spikes and show the girl my intentions. Although it’s a struggle I appreciate that I’m at the bottom rung of the ladder. The grind now will hopefully pay off when the days get longer and the sun attempts to make an appearance. Planning on a weekend trip to London at Easter to show the lads what the seedy streets of Soho have to offer and then hopefully a trip around the Balkans in the summer to see if I can get a few new flags.