Lunch Game

With the aim to keep the momentum going from yesterday I decided to head out and see what was on offer this lunchtime. I met up with one of my wings on Henry Street and it was full of opportunities. Lots were in groups or with their parents which didn’t help my AA. It’s a warm sunny Monday and everyone seems in great spirits. To get the ball rolling I approached what looked like an easy set. My guess was that she was Brazilian but wasn’t 100%. Usually this type of set is great to help warm up as South American girls in Dublin are usually really receptive. She had her headphones in and was walking quickly but I didn’t let that get in my way. I did the front stop and she didn’t even look at me, kept her headphones in, kept looking forward and continued walking. Thankfully I didn’t allow that to dampen my spirits. Like yesterday, I let a few opportunities pass me by. As we basked in the sun at the top of Grafton Street we saw this attractive looking girl window shopping. As she walked by my wing went after her. He was gone for about 10 minutes and came back with a big smile. Brazilian, very receptive and stunning! Well done!

Just as I was saying goodbye I saw a girl that was just my type. I was nervous as she had a resting bitch face but I forced myself to go. It was possibly the worst rejection I’ve ever got doing daygame. I did the front stop and she gave me the dirtiest look ever. Took off her headphones and asked what I was thinking going near her (I was standing a good 1.5 metre away). She gave me another filthy look and went on her way. Now the learning point – Usually a reaction like that would normally rock me. I’d question why I was out on the streets doing this. Her reaction (although it stung) is fair enough. She may have being having a shitty day or whatever. Failures help you progress and I’m going to use this rejection to help me improve my front stop. If one isn’t failing one isn’t trying hard enough. I will remind myself of this as the Covid-19 rejections build up over the next few weeks! The aim is to keep the momentum up for the rest of the week.

Freedom!

It felt really strange walking the streets of Dublin today. It almost seemed like everything was back to normal. After a while, you kind of get used to the queues of people waiting outside the shops. Dublin City was the busiest I’ve seen it in four months and it was my first time daygaming since the end of February. Nervous but excited, I made my way along Henry Street to meet up with some of my wings. It was a quick session as I needed to get home by a certain time. Part of me was looking forward to chatting to the lads after so long. We walked the streets for about 20 minutes chatting about what we’d been up to for the last few months. While chatting, my eyes scanned the streets looking for anything that may pique my interest. I definitely let opportunities pass me by as I chatted with the lads. We decided to head over towards Grafton Street when I spotted a curvy black girl pass me by. She was wearing a yellow jump suit and looked good. I chased after her and opened with a nervous smile. She said she had no English and I responded with now was a good time to practice. We chatted for a while but got nowhere.

We hung around Grafton Street but didn’t see anything worth approaching. To mix things up we headed back across the river towards the Spire. As we crossed the bridge I saw this cute nerdy girl slowly walk by on her phone. My eyes instantly lit up! She was small, cute, wearing a summer dress and showing off a delicious set of tits. AA was about to kick in when I had the ‘fuck it’ moment and went for it. My stop was good but I was very nervous during the set. I was dishing out lots of compliments and was nervous when the conversation seemed to slow down so I would ask another question of death to keep things moving. Eventually I shot for the number and I got it. I think I’d really enjoy taking this one out on a date. She’s atypical in many ways to what I normally go for. She’s cute, intelligent, very nerdy but also super sexy. I’ve sent a whatsapp so we shall see where it goes. Shortly after I had to leave the city. All in all, it was a quick session full or nerves and AA but thankfully I got a number on my first session of Summer 2020.

Campervan Fun

It’s been a busy weekend here in Dublin. The sun is shining and people are beginning to explore the city once again. Hopefully as restrictions reduce we’ll be able to hit the streets and get rolling on Summer 2020.

I needed to get out of the house on Friday. I was sick of the usual routine or lack thereof. I sent a text out seeing if a Brazilian girl I’ve been chatting to fancied going on a spin. It took her some convincing but I managed to persuade her in the end. We hit Dublin mountains as the sun was setting and she was really enjoying it. Throughout the journey I kept touching and testing the waters to see how receptive she was, I got no complaints and she began touching me which I thought was a good sign. It was getting late and as I parked up outside her house she jumped me and started kissing me heavily. I could tell she was horny by the way she was kissing. I slowly kissed her neck as she moaned loudly while her breathing got faster. I grabbed her juicy tits and then all of a sudden she went cold, said goodbye and left. She text me to say that she had a great time and was really horny but didn’t want to go any further that night. Fair enough!

Over the last few weeks I’d been getting texts of the other Brazilian girl I slept with in February. She was complaining that I never text and that I’m not interested in her anymore (which is kind of true). Once I sleep with a girl I get bored really quickly and my focus moves on to the next girl. I’ve had this discussion with a wing, he prefers to develop the connection with the girl and explore new and exciting things where I seem to want to get as many lays as I can and forget about the last notch. Anyway, I could tell she was horny as I kept brushing her off and then she began sending me naked pics. So Sunday I arranged a spin in the campervan. I picked her up and she was wearing a cute summer dress with no bra on. We drove for a little while and I decided to put my hand between her legs. Her pussy was soaking wet and she moaned as I slipped my finger inside. As I navigated the winding mountain roads, I pulled my shorts down and she began to suck me off as I tried to multitask. Failing miserably at that, I found the nearest spot to park and we jumped in the back. She loved the idea of getting caught and a few times people walked past out on their Sunday stroll. We experimented in the various positions one can do in a small campervan before I took the condom off and blew my load into her mouth. Once done she looked like she wanted to cuddle (this is the part I struggle with) I found an excuse to hop into the front and started the car. What are other men like after sex is over, do you enjoy those precious moments just chilling after the intimate act or are you, like me, planning the next lay in your mind? All in all a very busy happy weekend.

Helpful Advice

It’s been two weeks of self isolation and as a result no daygame. The decent weather seems to be on its way and I’m sure, under different circumstances the streets of Dublin would be full of women waiting to be approached. With no opportunities to approach, I’ve been brushing up on my theory. Watching infields and rereading daygame books. As a result it got me thinking about my first few daygame sessions. In this post I will share some of the strategies that helped me when it came to making my first couple of approaches.

I was very familiar with the London Daygame Model and had viewed many infield videos on Torero and Tusk’s Youtube channel. Living in London I felt I was in the best place possible to daygame. I read lots of theory and was confident as I jumped on the Northern Line on my way into central London. Boy did that change when I hit the streets. I was so nervous I couldn’t even stop someone and ask for directions. Later that night I felt downcast and dejected and downloaded Tinder again. Tinder was my crutch for the next few weeks as it helped feed my ego. So first piece of advice would be to delete all dating apps. If you are getting validation off a dating app it will not motivate you to walk the streets looking to get hot girls’ numbers.

Eventually I came to my senses and contacted a Daygame Coach who put me in contact with a wing. Again, the first session back I was free-styling and could only stop a handful of women and ask for directions. It took me several more session to try out the front stop and stack. My wing was a lot more advanced than me and began pushing me into sets and not taking no for an answer. At the time I hated him for it but I’m so glad he pushed me as it helped me massively. Therefore, find a wing that has a bit more experience than you (if possible). They can use their experience to guide and push you when needed. A lot of times guys will find an excuse not to go and do the set, when starting out you need to find a wing that will push you into the trickiest of sets that will challenge you and help develop your skills.

Now that I had a proper wing I found that I was going out approaching consistently which helped build up a bit of momentum. AA reduced as a result and I found that I was becoming more confident in sets. Additionally, a useful piece of advice that Torero gave was to stick to one or two stacks until it becomes second nature. I stacked on nationality all the time and in London you are spoiled for choice when it comes to approaching girls from different nationalities. Same in Dublin, the majority of the sets that my wings and I do are with girls from overseas mainly Latin America.

Another thing I noticed after a couple of sessions was that I was generally confident approaching 6s and 7s but would shy away from anything above that. During one session my wing mentioned the 94 year old rule and his point hit home. It goes like this – when you’re 94 will you even remember the time a really hot girl rejected you? No. So fuck it and approach. The worst thing that could happen is she ignores you and continues on with her way. Quite often its the high 8s and 9s who are most receptive to being approached as most guys are reluctant to approach them, so fuck it and go for it! As they say rejection is always better than regret and I’m definitely regretting all the missed opportunities I lost when I had a chance to approach but didn’t.

Become familiar with LDM and watch infields on Youtube
Delete dating apps
Find a wing preferably with more experience than you
Stick to 1 or 2 stacks
Be consistent
Think of the 94 year old rule and go for it!

There are more inner game things that I could mention but I will leave that for another post.

Learning

My first daygame lay left Dublin to head back to Brazil on Saturday, so I planned a date with another Brazilian for later that night. This one was a lot different, very confident expressing her views with a higher level of English. Throughout the texting period I could tell that she had some diva tendencies. She is a model back home in Brazil and I’m sure she’s used to getting her own way. We had organised to meet for drinks at 4:30pm but then she texted me to say that she was running late and if 6 would work. Some of my wings were having a few drinks in a pub close by as the weather was shit so I popped in there for a glass of vino. I made sure to be late and rocked up at 6:10pm before I walked her to the bar. I usually look over Torero’s dating video on YouTube before each date but since all his content came down a daygamer in NYC has broken each phase down into handy bullet point notes http://daygamenyc.com/ (thanks Runner). In the past I would avoid the ‘diva types’ but over the past few months daygame has given me the confidence to deal with their nonsense and turn it into my advantage. The date itself went well. In the first venue I went through each step, probably staying too long on blue and not enough time on red. At the second venue, it was more intimate and quieter so could bounce from blue to red a lot easier. By my 5th glass of wine I was very relaxed, leaning back and I noticed that she began to chase me. I asked her a few questions to figure out her thought process. She said she liked that I approached her, that nobody has ever done it to her before. She said she loves how I talk to her in such a ‘calm and chilled’ way (this could have been the red wine) and it excites her. There was a moments pause and then she went in for the kiss. The last hour was heavy kissing followed by periods of blue. She was meeting her mate to go dancing so I knew the lay was not on. She kept delaying her mate saying she wanted to spend more time with me. I think a more experienced daygamer could have worked their magic but overall I was happy with the date. I paid the bill which pissed me off this morning as I felt that came across as too needy.In my head the idea of splitting the bill at the end gets a bit awkward so I’d sooner just pay and be done with it. We have another date planned so we shall see how it goes, she’ll be paying next time!

Infield Report – Dublin, 25/5/19

I had been living back in Dublin for a few months when I got a ping on my phone telling me that Tusk had added me to a group on whatsapp. A Daygame group was created and from that I got chatting to a few guys based in Ireland who had done daygame in the past. Most of the lads seemed about my level so after a few texts we decided to head out on the streets of Dirty Dublin and try our hand at a bit of game. This was my first time attempting it in Ireland and my first time after a hiatus of about 7 months. The guy that got me into Tom Torero in Dubai in 2017 was up in Dublin and decided to tag along. Myself and T met up with M from the whatsapp group.

We started off with a coffee and a walk up O’Connell street. Not much was happening as the street seemed too crowded. We decided to head down towards Henry Street and although busy, I was hoping we could spot a few single sets to warm us up. I saw a girl walking up the street holding a helmet. For some reason AA didn’t seem strong at all and I had no hesitations when I approached. The stack was clumpy and flat (I had mentioned her helmet and she left. I noticed she had really bad teeth, so when she showed no interest I just let her go. It wasn’t long after when M and T got off the mark with some strong approaches. At the top of Henry Street I saw a cute girl in gym gear, again without hesitation I walked straight up to her. She seemed interested but I couldn’t think of what to say after the stack. I mentioned just being in the gym etc. but the conversation didn’t go anywhere. It went quiet for a while as we went south of the river. After about 30 minutes we decided to head back towards Henry Street. M got a really cute Mexican girl’s number just before he headed off, she was open and friendly and was delighted to have been approached. T and I floated about doing a couple of sets that lead nowhere. Finally as we neared the Ilac a south american girl with great tits walks by. I count to three and walk back. After a patchy start things are going well but her English is terrible. I keep looking at her great set of tits and she gives me a knowing smile. Because her English is so bad and due to my lack of experience I’m not sure what to do. I eventually get her number and leave. Looking back I’m not sure if an instant date would have been a better idea as she knew I was attracted to her. We stay on Henry street and T gets a tasty American number, she was so receptive and happy that he approached. As we are strolling through Temple Bar I spot my ideal girl. She’s mixed race with an afro, tall and slim walking with a purpose. I tell myself that I’m nowhere near ready to approach her but T pushes me in. Already I had failed as I was telling myself this on my approach. I open, stack and it turns out she’s Irish! That caught me off guard completely. Ireland has its fair share of beautiful mix race girls but usually they’re from South America. Unlike London, the mix of Irish mixed with black is not as common (I wish it was). I’m glad I did the approach and looking back I need to prepare myself for all eventualities to get past the stacking phase.

Conclusion – As a very inexperienced daygamer I feel Dublin is easier to approach compared with London. Although we didn’t approach many Irish girls there are a lot of other nationalities who are delighted with an approach and are more than happy to pass on their number. I reckon an experienced daygamer would clean up on the streets of Dirty Dublin.

Infield Report, London, 4/9/18

I’m going to start with my final approach and the lesson I learnt as a result. Myself and Y had just finished a two hour session in central. We were sitting in Covent Garden and a girl passed. She was very sexy, in gym gear and walked with a purpose. I went and approached. She had a bottle in her mouth and an apple in her hand. I mentioned how sexy she looked even though she had her mouth full. She laughed. I played around with her and everything was going well. Now the thing is, as I approached in my head I had told myself that she was not going to be interested. As the set progressed I was panicking as I had already set myself up for failure. She said that she was from Chile and was openly waiting for me to continue, I lost the frame and left. The learning point here is to quieten the negative voices in your head before you approach because the majority of women love being stoped, it’s the logical side of my brain that is telling me otherwise.

Overall it was a good day today, I managed 5 approaches.First there was a girl near Piccadilly Circus, she looked great from a distance but wasn’t too good closer up. I was happy to get the first one done. A little while later, near Covent Garden I approached a really hot girl. She was Italian and her English was really bad. I slowed my speech way down but it was a struggle. Another girl near Covent Garden who I thought was a tourist turned out to be English. She had no interest in chatting and walked away. It dipped for a while and then saw a cute mixed race girl on Oxford Street. She seemed surprised and probably would have continued chatting but I walked away. Reflecting on today’s performance, I’m slowly getting the approaches up but I need to be ready to stack more and stick to the frame.

Infield Report 1/8/18

Really productive day today. So after the dip yesterday I decided to give Y £10 and said he could keep it if I didn’t approach at least 6. This seems to be a great method to motivate me to approach.
First girl was a Liverpool girl on Carnaby Street. Strong enough approach, I didn’t really stick to the frame but she was enjoying the experience. She had a great body with big juicy tits but her face wasn’t great. She said that she had to go catch a bus and left. I should have grabbed her number before she bounced. Straight after there was a girl walking down the street with headphones in. I was feeling good after the last set so felt confident, she just stepped around me and continued on her merry way. Pretty much 2 minutes later a short but really cute girl passed me. I stopped her and guessed that she was Italian. It turned out that she was from New Zealand. The set was really strong, I took charge and moved her away from a noisy group of tourists and she was happy with my lead. I could feel myself going down the ‘questions of death’ route again so I thought I’d ask for her number and bounce for both our sake’s. She said she had a boyfriend, I was about to do the whole ‘I’m not trying to be your BF’ but bottled it. Reflecting on the set, it seems I didn’t spend enough time after she invested. Good experience all-the-same.
There was a dip for about an hour as we walked around. Y was not on at all, he was not his usual self and was only half making an effort. I tried to push him as best I could but he wasn’t feeling it at all. I saw a posh looking girl walk up the street near the Tesco at Covent Garden, she just kept walking and didn’t take out her headphones. She was wearing sun glasses and that put me off as I couldn’t read her facial expressions. We were about to call it a day when we decided to do one quick lap of Trafalgar Square. We stopped and had a gander. I spotted a girl at the edge of the square walking around dreamily taking pictures, definitely a tourist . They were the perfect conditions. My approach was good, told her she looked good and she giggled. I began by saying she looked Spanish, it turns out she was from Costa Rica. She’s studying here and I teased her about wanting to be back on the beach. She really liked that I was a teacher. Her eyes widened when I slapped her on the arm and said she was a naughty student for not studying. We chatted some more and I sold her the adventure idea. I explained that I was with my friend and that I couldn’t stay long. We chatted about art and then I closed with the number.

Infield Report 31st July

Went out after work today. Felt pretty nervous as it had been a pretty busy day in work and I couldn’t regulate my thoughts. We started the session on Carnaby Street, approached a girl who I thought was Spanish, turned out to be English. Left it as it was falling flat and bounced from the set. Needed a stronger stop and I didn’t escalate enough. The 2nd approach was an Asian girl. She had headphones in but was happy to see me. I complimented then bounced. Critically speaking, I need to up my approaches. I can’t expect to get anywhere if I’m only doing two approaches. Y approached 8 and number closed two. I need to think of a strategy to overcome the weasels in my head.

I’m telling myself that the set is going to go tits up as I compliment the girl so I need to block out those voices and continue till she either walks away or tells me to fuck off.

Jump into June

So as summer 2018 was slowly passing by I got a notification on my phone. The app store was giving me a gentle reminder that my Tinder subscription was almost up and that I should act quickly to sign up again and pay my £80 for 6 months, bargain right? A few weeks before I began following James Tusk on Youtube, I liked his style and decided not to go with the Tinder subscription and to message him instead. A week later he had hooked me up with a wing named Y. Unfortunately James was busy for the summer so I missed out on a coaching session with him.
One sunny Sunday I met up with Y for my first ‘proper’ session. Y had received a few coaching sessions with another PUA affiliated with Tusk. He looked the part and was definitely more experienced at this than I was. We had a coffee and discussed our POA. We planned to go out as often as possible (at the time I was working crazy London hours and he was working unsociable hours but we made it work). I look back on that day with a smile, I was clueless and could only muster the courage to ask for directions although managed to develop two conversations. One was with an Italian girl on Regent Street, I asked her where she was from and tried to do the whole ‘I’ve been told you need to be careful with Italian girls because they like to party’ trick but ended up talking about Italian food and how it makes you sleepy. Y was smashing it, approached some really hot girls and his vibe was strong. We ended up at Embankment shattered after the day’s events. I was really looking forward to doing it all again soon.

From then on in I began to take notes on the way home on the tube. The next few posts are those aforementioned notes. This blog is hopefully the kick up the backside I need to start daygaming again. My accountability mirror if you will.