Surprise!

After months of not being able to do any approaches, restrictions are finally lifting which is resulting in more people being on the streets. Two weeks ago Tom and I decided to dip our toes in the murky waters of Dublin’s streets and see what was on offer. Unfortunately, parts of the city are like skid row, were once you would easily stop many south american students going about their day, now one is more likely to dodge between groups of homeless people and others high on drugs. As a result, Grafton street seems to be the wiser option for the time being. We’ve gone out three times now and the first time was pretty uneventful, there were definitely sets that we could have opened but it was hard to build up any momentum as they all seem to be travelling in big groups at the minute.

I’m happy in many ways that I’m making some sort of effort to be back on the streets and also sharing my experiences here. It seems the purpose of this post was to share that I’m back doing game again but I also want to share an experience I had when I opened a girl a few days ago on the north side of the city. I had seen her on the other side of the road and from where I was standing she was all dressed up. It looked like she had a great juicy booty and was happy showing off a great rack. I could not let this one pass!

As she walked ahead of me I took my time as I was rushing previous sets that I had opened which had startled the girls. The ass was swaying from side to side, almost putting me in a daze. I took a deep breath and went for it. As I opened I realized something was amiss. After my compliment she responded ‘thank you,’ with a deeper voice than mine and I finally connected the dots. It was actually a man dressed as a woman. She was Brazilian, hence the big boobs and fake ass and as I stopped I noticed dark hairs on the upper lip. I wished her a good day and ran away as fast as I could. That gentlemen, has been my daygame highlight over the last 3 weeks. Don’t give up!

Lunch Game

With the aim to keep the momentum going from yesterday I decided to head out and see what was on offer this lunchtime. I met up with one of my wings on Henry Street and it was full of opportunities. Lots were in groups or with their parents which didn’t help my AA. It’s a warm sunny Monday and everyone seems in great spirits. To get the ball rolling I approached what looked like an easy set. My guess was that she was Brazilian but wasn’t 100%. Usually this type of set is great to help warm up as South American girls in Dublin are usually really receptive. She had her headphones in and was walking quickly but I didn’t let that get in my way. I did the front stop and she didn’t even look at me, kept her headphones in, kept looking forward and continued walking. Thankfully I didn’t allow that to dampen my spirits. Like yesterday, I let a few opportunities pass me by. As we basked in the sun at the top of Grafton Street we saw this attractive looking girl window shopping. As she walked by my wing went after her. He was gone for about 10 minutes and came back with a big smile. Brazilian, very receptive and stunning! Well done!

Just as I was saying goodbye I saw a girl that was just my type. I was nervous as she had a resting bitch face but I forced myself to go. It was possibly the worst rejection I’ve ever got doing daygame. I did the front stop and she gave me the dirtiest look ever. Took off her headphones and asked what I was thinking going near her (I was standing a good 1.5 metre away). She gave me another filthy look and went on her way. Now the learning point – Usually a reaction like that would normally rock me. I’d question why I was out on the streets doing this. Her reaction (although it stung) is fair enough. She may have being having a shitty day or whatever. Failures help you progress and I’m going to use this rejection to help me improve my front stop. If one isn’t failing one isn’t trying hard enough. I will remind myself of this as the Covid-19 rejections build up over the next few weeks! The aim is to keep the momentum up for the rest of the week.

Freedom!

It felt really strange walking the streets of Dublin today. It almost seemed like everything was back to normal. After a while, you kind of get used to the queues of people waiting outside the shops. Dublin City was the busiest I’ve seen it in four months and it was my first time daygaming since the end of February. Nervous but excited, I made my way along Henry Street to meet up with some of my wings. It was a quick session as I needed to get home by a certain time. Part of me was looking forward to chatting to the lads after so long. We walked the streets for about 20 minutes chatting about what we’d been up to for the last few months. While chatting, my eyes scanned the streets looking for anything that may pique my interest. I definitely let opportunities pass me by as I chatted with the lads. We decided to head over towards Grafton Street when I spotted a curvy black girl pass me by. She was wearing a yellow jump suit and looked good. I chased after her and opened with a nervous smile. She said she had no English and I responded with now was a good time to practice. We chatted for a while but got nowhere.

We hung around Grafton Street but didn’t see anything worth approaching. To mix things up we headed back across the river towards the Spire. As we crossed the bridge I saw this cute nerdy girl slowly walk by on her phone. My eyes instantly lit up! She was small, cute, wearing a summer dress and showing off a delicious set of tits. AA was about to kick in when I had the ‘fuck it’ moment and went for it. My stop was good but I was very nervous during the set. I was dishing out lots of compliments and was nervous when the conversation seemed to slow down so I would ask another question of death to keep things moving. Eventually I shot for the number and I got it. I think I’d really enjoy taking this one out on a date. She’s atypical in many ways to what I normally go for. She’s cute, intelligent, very nerdy but also super sexy. I’ve sent a whatsapp so we shall see where it goes. Shortly after I had to leave the city. All in all, it was a quick session full or nerves and AA but thankfully I got a number on my first session of Summer 2020.

Infield Report – 21/8/19, Dublin

I went out with my wings on a rainy evening in Dublin after I arrived back from Colombia. Weather was shite and my vibe was off. First session back since May. I only managed to do one approach but got her number. A saw a girl walk past me on Henry Street wearing tight white jeans with a big juicy ass. As I got closer I realized her face wasn’t great but I persisted and got her number. Turns out she was Mexican and her texting abilities were limited. My approach was strong but I startled her, spoke too fast and I had to repeat myself a few times. On the way home I was annoyed that I only approached 1 girl so decided to go out the next day.

Infield Report -28/05/19

I was doing an open mic later that night so had a few hours to kill. I’ve been trying to push myself to do more solo game in order to improve and not rely on having a wing. The weather wasn’t ideal put I wasn’t prepared to listen to any weasels. I placed myself on a nice spot at the top of Henry Street (it is now one of my favorite spots to fish) and watched the lovely ladies pass me by. I’ve been eyeing South Americans lately as I feel they are easier to approach. One passed me and I regretted not taking action. Thankfully I saw her again further down Henry Street and I went in. ‘You look South American’ I said with a smile. I teased her about the weather in Ireland and why she wasn’t on the beach in a bikini. She was very compliant and open but didn’t invest. I was pretty unsure what to do after as I was waiting for her to hook. I fell into ‘Hairdresser Questions’ mode and lost the frame. Recently I’ve noticed girls I approach are a little confused as I am speaking too quickly for them and they don’t fully know what is going on. I got her number but she flaked – I wasn’t surprised.

Overall, happy with getting a number while I was out solo but need to push myself more.

Infield Report – Dublin, 25/5/19

I had been living back in Dublin for a few months when I got a ping on my phone telling me that Tusk had added me to a group on whatsapp. A Daygame group was created and from that I got chatting to a few guys based in Ireland who had done daygame in the past. Most of the lads seemed about my level so after a few texts we decided to head out on the streets of Dirty Dublin and try our hand at a bit of game. This was my first time attempting it in Ireland and my first time after a hiatus of about 7 months. The guy that got me into Tom Torero in Dubai in 2017 was up in Dublin and decided to tag along. Myself and T met up with M from the whatsapp group.

We started off with a coffee and a walk up O’Connell street. Not much was happening as the street seemed too crowded. We decided to head down towards Henry Street and although busy, I was hoping we could spot a few single sets to warm us up. I saw a girl walking up the street holding a helmet. For some reason AA didn’t seem strong at all and I had no hesitations when I approached. The stack was clumpy and flat (I had mentioned her helmet and she left. I noticed she had really bad teeth, so when she showed no interest I just let her go. It wasn’t long after when M and T got off the mark with some strong approaches. At the top of Henry Street I saw a cute girl in gym gear, again without hesitation I walked straight up to her. She seemed interested but I couldn’t think of what to say after the stack. I mentioned just being in the gym etc. but the conversation didn’t go anywhere. It went quiet for a while as we went south of the river. After about 30 minutes we decided to head back towards Henry Street. M got a really cute Mexican girl’s number just before he headed off, she was open and friendly and was delighted to have been approached. T and I floated about doing a couple of sets that lead nowhere. Finally as we neared the Ilac a south american girl with great tits walks by. I count to three and walk back. After a patchy start things are going well but her English is terrible. I keep looking at her great set of tits and she gives me a knowing smile. Because her English is so bad and due to my lack of experience I’m not sure what to do. I eventually get her number and leave. Looking back I’m not sure if an instant date would have been a better idea as she knew I was attracted to her. We stay on Henry street and T gets a tasty American number, she was so receptive and happy that he approached. As we are strolling through Temple Bar I spot my ideal girl. She’s mixed race with an afro, tall and slim walking with a purpose. I tell myself that I’m nowhere near ready to approach her but T pushes me in. Already I had failed as I was telling myself this on my approach. I open, stack and it turns out she’s Irish! That caught me off guard completely. Ireland has its fair share of beautiful mix race girls but usually they’re from South America. Unlike London, the mix of Irish mixed with black is not as common (I wish it was). I’m glad I did the approach and looking back I need to prepare myself for all eventualities to get past the stacking phase.

Conclusion – As a very inexperienced daygamer I feel Dublin is easier to approach compared with London. Although we didn’t approach many Irish girls there are a lot of other nationalities who are delighted with an approach and are more than happy to pass on their number. I reckon an experienced daygamer would clean up on the streets of Dirty Dublin.

Infield Report, London, 12/09/18

Solo for the first time. Y said he is moving to Cyprus in a month so I need to get used to approaching solo. Hung around Trafalgar Sq for a while but nothing was happening. The evening was dry and mild so was happy to be out.

Crossed Westminister Bridge and saw a girl storming past. Hesitated but went for it. Not the strongest of stops. I said she looked nice and she just powered on. Glad I got off the mark but this needs to improve if I’m to get anywhere.

Here concludes my daygaming experience in London. I’m sure I went back on the dating apps for the next couple of months with a lot of success but little sense of achievement. I moved back to Ireland in January and it wasn’t until May that I did my first approaches on the streets of Dublin with an old and new wing.

Infield Report, London, 4/9/18

I’m going to start with my final approach and the lesson I learnt as a result. Myself and Y had just finished a two hour session in central. We were sitting in Covent Garden and a girl passed. She was very sexy, in gym gear and walked with a purpose. I went and approached. She had a bottle in her mouth and an apple in her hand. I mentioned how sexy she looked even though she had her mouth full. She laughed. I played around with her and everything was going well. Now the thing is, as I approached in my head I had told myself that she was not going to be interested. As the set progressed I was panicking as I had already set myself up for failure. She said that she was from Chile and was openly waiting for me to continue, I lost the frame and left. The learning point here is to quieten the negative voices in your head before you approach because the majority of women love being stoped, it’s the logical side of my brain that is telling me otherwise.

Overall it was a good day today, I managed 5 approaches.First there was a girl near Piccadilly Circus, she looked great from a distance but wasn’t too good closer up. I was happy to get the first one done. A little while later, near Covent Garden I approached a really hot girl. She was Italian and her English was really bad. I slowed my speech way down but it was a struggle. Another girl near Covent Garden who I thought was a tourist turned out to be English. She had no interest in chatting and walked away. It dipped for a while and then saw a cute mixed race girl on Oxford Street. She seemed surprised and probably would have continued chatting but I walked away. Reflecting on today’s performance, I’m slowly getting the approaches up but I need to be ready to stack more and stick to the frame.

Infield Report 1/8/18

Really productive day today. So after the dip yesterday I decided to give Y £10 and said he could keep it if I didn’t approach at least 6. This seems to be a great method to motivate me to approach.
First girl was a Liverpool girl on Carnaby Street. Strong enough approach, I didn’t really stick to the frame but she was enjoying the experience. She had a great body with big juicy tits but her face wasn’t great. She said that she had to go catch a bus and left. I should have grabbed her number before she bounced. Straight after there was a girl walking down the street with headphones in. I was feeling good after the last set so felt confident, she just stepped around me and continued on her merry way. Pretty much 2 minutes later a short but really cute girl passed me. I stopped her and guessed that she was Italian. It turned out that she was from New Zealand. The set was really strong, I took charge and moved her away from a noisy group of tourists and she was happy with my lead. I could feel myself going down the ‘questions of death’ route again so I thought I’d ask for her number and bounce for both our sake’s. She said she had a boyfriend, I was about to do the whole ‘I’m not trying to be your BF’ but bottled it. Reflecting on the set, it seems I didn’t spend enough time after she invested. Good experience all-the-same.
There was a dip for about an hour as we walked around. Y was not on at all, he was not his usual self and was only half making an effort. I tried to push him as best I could but he wasn’t feeling it at all. I saw a posh looking girl walk up the street near the Tesco at Covent Garden, she just kept walking and didn’t take out her headphones. She was wearing sun glasses and that put me off as I couldn’t read her facial expressions. We were about to call it a day when we decided to do one quick lap of Trafalgar Square. We stopped and had a gander. I spotted a girl at the edge of the square walking around dreamily taking pictures, definitely a tourist . They were the perfect conditions. My approach was good, told her she looked good and she giggled. I began by saying she looked Spanish, it turns out she was from Costa Rica. She’s studying here and I teased her about wanting to be back on the beach. She really liked that I was a teacher. Her eyes widened when I slapped her on the arm and said she was a naughty student for not studying. We chatted some more and I sold her the adventure idea. I explained that I was with my friend and that I couldn’t stay long. We chatted about art and then I closed with the number.

Infield Report 31st July

Went out after work today. Felt pretty nervous as it had been a pretty busy day in work and I couldn’t regulate my thoughts. We started the session on Carnaby Street, approached a girl who I thought was Spanish, turned out to be English. Left it as it was falling flat and bounced from the set. Needed a stronger stop and I didn’t escalate enough. The 2nd approach was an Asian girl. She had headphones in but was happy to see me. I complimented then bounced. Critically speaking, I need to up my approaches. I can’t expect to get anywhere if I’m only doing two approaches. Y approached 8 and number closed two. I need to think of a strategy to overcome the weasels in my head.

I’m telling myself that the set is going to go tits up as I compliment the girl so I need to block out those voices and continue till she either walks away or tells me to fuck off.