Campervan Fun

It’s been a busy weekend here in Dublin. The sun is shining and people are beginning to explore the city once again. Hopefully as restrictions reduce we’ll be able to hit the streets and get rolling on Summer 2020.

I needed to get out of the house on Friday. I was sick of the usual routine or lack thereof. I sent a text out seeing if a Brazilian girl I’ve been chatting to fancied going on a spin. It took her some convincing but I managed to persuade her in the end. We hit Dublin mountains as the sun was setting and she was really enjoying it. Throughout the journey I kept touching and testing the waters to see how receptive she was, I got no complaints and she began touching me which I thought was a good sign. It was getting late and as I parked up outside her house she jumped me and started kissing me heavily. I could tell she was horny by the way she was kissing. I slowly kissed her neck as she moaned loudly while her breathing got faster. I grabbed her juicy tits and then all of a sudden she went cold, said goodbye and left. She text me to say that she had a great time and was really horny but didn’t want to go any further that night. Fair enough!

Over the last few weeks I’d been getting texts of the other Brazilian girl I slept with in February. She was complaining that I never text and that I’m not interested in her anymore (which is kind of true). Once I sleep with a girl I get bored really quickly and my focus moves on to the next girl. I’ve had this discussion with a wing, he prefers to develop the connection with the girl and explore new and exciting things where I seem to want to get as many lays as I can and forget about the last notch. Anyway, I could tell she was horny as I kept brushing her off and then she began sending me naked pics. So Sunday I arranged a spin in the campervan. I picked her up and she was wearing a cute summer dress with no bra on. We drove for a little while and I decided to put my hand between her legs. Her pussy was soaking wet and she moaned as I slipped my finger inside. As I navigated the winding mountain roads, I pulled my shorts down and she began to suck me off as I tried to multitask. Failing miserably at that, I found the nearest spot to park and we jumped in the back. She loved the idea of getting caught and a few times people walked past out on their Sunday stroll. We experimented in the various positions one can do in a small campervan before I took the condom off and blew my load into her mouth. Once done she looked like she wanted to cuddle (this is the part I struggle with) I found an excuse to hop into the front and started the car. What are other men like after sex is over, do you enjoy those precious moments just chilling after the intimate act or are you, like me, planning the next lay in your mind? All in all a very busy happy weekend.

Lockdown Date

10 weeks into lockdown and my days of daygaming are a distant memory. Although I’m worried I’ve lost the progress I had made I’m sure once things start to relax a little I can get back to where I was before. Thankfully T.T. is back online having uploaded a decent amount of content onto his YouTube channel, Blacksheep Bandit. I have also reread The Game by Neil Strauss which has given me the motivation to really give night game a go once bars and clubs open again. The majority of the summer will be lost but we still have August to cut our teeth in the bars and clubs of the city. I’m sure the AA will be strong for the first few approaches a feeling I can’t wait to experience again! Anyway the point of the post. Two weeks ago I managed to organize a coffee date with a girl I knew from years ago. It was the final few minutes of the date that I want to discuss.

This girl was Irish and was moving to another part of the country two days later so it was a rushed kind of date. She didn’t live too far away from me so I told her we would grab coffee and go for a walk in the park. I gave her the option of meeting me in the park or me picking her up at her place and she went for the latter, a green light I thought. The date itself went well although it did get very chatty and friendly as we discussed things from the past (we had worked together in 2006). She mentioned that she was moving and had a heavy suitcase that she was struggling to move so I offered to move it when I dropped her home. She agreed. Another green light I thought. Fast-forward a few hours and I’m in her house. I’m not sure if it was being locked down for over 8 weeks but my adrenaline was up and I was finding it tricky to think straight. Once you’re in the house the rest just falls into place I thought. Not so. So I finished moving the case and was standing at the door. There was that awkward moment that I can’t get comfortable with which forced me to go for a somewhat half arsed kiss on cheek/side of face. With that over with I quickly got in my car and drove away. I mention this as it reminds me of the date I had with the American girl. As I walked her to her hotel and she stopped outside (I assumed we were going straight in) when she said goodbye and went for a kiss I got her cheek too and then left quickly after.

I think getting the cheek when I go in for a kiss feels like a rejection to me and instead of owning the situation and being a man and calling it out I get flustered and leave quickly. Reflecting I have definitely lost opportunities because of this. Have you experienced this before? I think I need to prepare myself to go directly for the lips and not give her the chance to offer her cheek or be ready to respond in assertive way if she does just give me a cheek. It’s a shit test and I’ve failed a few times. Hopefully the lesson is learnt.

Instant Date

Yesterday I was out with two of my wings. It was busy in town and I let a few good sets pass me by. I didn’t feel like I had a good vibe after a busy day at work. I drank a black coffee later than I usually do and felt a wave of anxiety go through me as I walked down Henry St. It was a stop start kind of session and I wasn’t feeling great. I opened an interesting looking black girl near the GPO but got nowhere. I had a couple of near misses before we decided to head across the bridge to Grafton St. As we got to the south side the Christmas lights were flashing as darkness covered the city. A girl all in black rushed past. I looked at my wing and he gave me the nod. I doubled back up the steps of the Ha’penny Bridge and chased the lady in black down. My initial thought was that she was a solid 8. When I opened her about being a black bear hiding in the darkness she hooked immediately and it was easy sailing from there. I found out that she was from Brazil, in Ireland two years and very receptive to my ‘Irish charm’. She literally did all the work for me.

Now today I was thinking if I learnt anything from the set. I’ve mentioned before that the majority of South American girls are very receptive and even after a weak set you normally come out with a number. I encountered no shit tests and after I closed for the number she mentioned how she had nothing on that evening and would love a drink. I suggested a bar and she agreed with a smile. The idate went really well, chatted about shit for a while, then escalated which she was receptive to. Walked her up Henry St and kissed her. I think I could have pushed for a bounce back to hers as she was getting very hot and moaning when I kissed her. In hindsight I regret not even suggesting it.

Has this experience helped me along in my journey? I’m not sure. I’m glad I got her out for an idate but she seems like a ‘Yes’ girl and would go along with anything I suggest. I’m relatively new to the whole daygame world. Do I need to skip the ‘easy’ sets and just go for more challenging sets in order to improve? Or do I go for everything till the whole process is embedded and it becomes second nature? Who knows!

Date with Spanish Girl.

I’m jumping ahead a bit but since this happened yesterday, I want to write it down as it’s still fresh in my mind. This was the second date with this Spanish girl. She said at the start of the first date that she had a boyfriend but I wasn’t going to let that get in the way. We decided to go to a place not too from Dublin for a hike and a picnic. In my very limited ‘game’ mind the idea was to create a bubble so that she would feel comfortable and relaxed with me and not be thinking about the boyfriend. It was a beautiful September’s day and the hike was pleasant and chilled. She is very petite and feminine and as we were driving to the location she took her top off wearing only a string vest. I’m certain she sensed all the blood draining from the top half of my body heading south, I suddenly felt an adrenaline spike for a few moments, I wanted her there and then! Once the hike was over we had our picnic, making sure I sat nice and close. We ate and joked around as I slowly escalated. Within minutes her legs were in between mine, my hand up her top slowly rubbing her back. I kept giving her the tiger eyes and she kept giggling nervously. Now, at this point I knew it was time to close, but I kept getting her cheek. I cooled things off for a while and tried again, no joy! As we were leaving and I was packing things into the van she came over and hugged me. This lasted for about 10 seconds and I went for it again but nothing.

Reflecting, Torero always says about taking the bull by the horns and leading. I felt that I was leading but not with 100% conviction. I feel she was constantly debating in her mind whether to give herself up or stay loyal to the boyfriend. Other than that, I’m not sure what I should have done differently.

Date with Katharona 16/08/18

This was the first date with a girl from day game. I had been on a date with a girl the night before (Hinge) and it was flat and lifeless. Subsequently I would go on a date the following day (another Hinge date) and that felt the same.
For this date I watched Tom Torero’s Date Tips. I was pretty nervous the afternoon of the date for some reason, I think I was tired from the night before. I got home from work and took a nap.K was coming to Camden for a tour. I decided to head down to the pub 20 minutes early to scout out if it were busy. Just as I was passing the first pub she texted me saying that she had arrived. I delayed and took another 10 minutes. Thankfully the pub was quiet and I found her sitting by herself in a corner drinking a beer. She followed my instructions to dress like she was going to a gig, a good sign I thought. I commenced the dating steps. After the initial phase I broke rapport and took her to the next pub. This was a cocktail bar with a quiet, funky upstairs. I sat beside her so that I could escalate when required. We got into a discussion about ‘life’ and she said she had a ‘fuck it’ motto. So I escalated and kissed her. No resistance. I was jumping from hot to cold for the rest of the night. Things were wrapping up and I said we should go for one more drink (back in the original venue) but it turned out to be closed, that was an error on my part as it caught me off guard. I half threw out the idea of coming back to mine and added that I was up early next morning. I knew as I was saying it that I didn’t deliver it with enough conviction. She passed on my offer and said ‘next time’. At the station we kissed heavily and I planned to change her mind but a group of drunk people walked past and ruined the mood.
She’s not a great texter which suits me perfectly. We’ve organised a video night for next week. Reflecting on the three dates I understand why this was more successful than the other two. I had a plan. I stuck to it. It almost paid off.