Learning

My first daygame lay left Dublin to head back to Brazil on Saturday, so I planned a date with another Brazilian for later that night. This one was a lot different, very confident expressing her views with a higher level of English. Throughout the texting period I could tell that she had some diva tendencies. She is a model back home in Brazil and I’m sure she’s used to getting her own way. We had organised to meet for drinks at 4:30pm but then she texted me to say that she was running late and if 6 would work. Some of my wings were having a few drinks in a pub close by as the weather was shit so I popped in there for a glass of vino. I made sure to be late and rocked up at 6:10pm before I walked her to the bar. I usually look over Torero’s dating video on YouTube before each date but since all his content came down a daygamer in NYC has broken each phase down into handy bullet point notes http://daygamenyc.com/ (thanks Runner). In the past I would avoid the ‘diva types’ but over the past few months daygame has given me the confidence to deal with their nonsense and turn it into my advantage. The date itself went well. In the first venue I went through each step, probably staying too long on blue and not enough time on red. At the second venue, it was more intimate and quieter so could bounce from blue to red a lot easier. By my 5th glass of wine I was very relaxed, leaning back and I noticed that she began to chase me. I asked her a few questions to figure out her thought process. She said she liked that I approached her, that nobody has ever done it to her before. She said she loves how I talk to her in such a ‘calm and chilled’ way (this could have been the red wine) and it excites her. There was a moments pause and then she went in for the kiss. The last hour was heavy kissing followed by periods of blue. She was meeting her mate to go dancing so I knew the lay was not on. She kept delaying her mate saying she wanted to spend more time with me. I think a more experienced daygamer could have worked their magic but overall I was happy with the date. I paid the bill which pissed me off this morning as I felt that came across as too needy.In my head the idea of splitting the bill at the end gets a bit awkward so I’d sooner just pay and be done with it. We have another date planned so we shall see how it goes, she’ll be paying next time!